Same there, totally agree, you have to hammer things, hard to play subtle. We need some kind of offset control. I imagine that adding more velocity curves with various offsets wouldn't be too taxing.
The perfect solution would have been to have a pot instead of the Velocity button, which would be the starting offset at 0 velocity, then volume would be stretched to 100% for full velocity. This way, pot full right means always 100% of the VCA volume, like having velocity off, full left would be like today when toggling velocity and a mid-way would give 50% volume at 0 velocity, for instance. Ideally that is a value that you want to save with the patch, not a global value.
Maybe the volume pedal could have a mode where it acts as the offset for the VCA velocity, could work.